Purposeful Parenting

Going for Broke

We all want was is best for our kids but what does purposeful parenting look like in practice?

Follow the creator of Anton’s Antics’ as he negotiates the challenges of being a parent.

“The blog's slogan started off as a joke between my wife and I, as it can be tough making ends meet and parenting is not easy. I want to hear Jesus say ‘well done, good and faithful servant’ with what He has entrusted to me.  We have to go for broke don’t we?

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How Mel Gibson just made my Christmas

How mel gibson made my ChristmasWhat if I could give you one idea, one thing, that would be the best gift this Christmas or make anyone’s New Year resolution so simple and just awesome?


What is it? Where can you buy it?


Mel Gibson. 


Well, its not just Mel. It’s a verse from Scripture that I saw beautifully exposited in Mel’s latest movie, Hacksaw Ridge.


I don’t often get to see movies when they hit the big screen. But with wife away, I had the glorious opportunity of sitting in a cinema with a massive screen all to myself…almost. There was one dude who came in and put his feet on the seats near me…come on mate, there’s a whole cinema here…spread out dude. Then there was the chippy muncher who slid in a bit later. Followed by, as the movie started, the couple who thought it was Ok to chat for the first 3 minutes of Mel’s contemplative beginning where if you’re not careful you’ll miss the verse of Scripture that I’m so keen to share with you:


“Do you not know? Have you not heard?

The LORD is the everlasting God, the creator of the ends of the earth.

He will not grow tired or weary, and his understanding no-one can fathom.

He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.

Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall;

but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength,

They will soar on wings like eagles;

they will run and not grow weary,

they will walk and not be faint”

Isaiah 40:28-31


Familiar right?

A very famous passage, but how beautiful are those words.

So what's different about these familiar words that I feel so strongly about?

I want you to hold these dear wherever you are at this Christmas. Maybe everything is fine; maybe life is falling apart. The point is look at the vigour of young people, then realise that even they grow faint under the harshest circumstances. But not so those whose hope is in Jesus. You can be 102 or mid-llfe and fighting cancer. Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. You have to see the movie to see what I mean. When all the strong fail, the weak who have faith rise on the wings of eagles. True story, wonderful testimony.


Mel’s story is a war story, so girls, be warned this movie is pretty full on, may not be you're cup of tea, but for the men in your life, it’s worth the effort, if not for yourself. Make a good Chrissy gift for him. Definitely don’t take your kids.


The LORD, Jesus is the greatest gift. In the new year, make sure your hope, your strength remains in Him. He's more than a match for whatever is coming your way.


Thanks for sticking with us throughout 2016. What’s 2017 got in store for you?


I’m looking forward to next year. Anton’s got some big plans: Online content that will really benefit your family, your ministry. It’ll take time, but we’ll get there with your input. Exciting stuff.


But right now me and my family need some real R&R, so I’m gonna take a little break from blogging and catch up with you in the new year, January some time.


Merry Christmas from Anton, Stevo and Skito!

Free Christmas gift for you!

Free Kids Christmas story videoIs it possible that my kids could be taking a fresh look at the Bible’s Christmas story this year through a FREE live action video using fun characters, live drawings and rap music? The answer is, Yes!

Ever struggled to explain the importance of the Christmas story in a way that is relevant to your kids?

Want to break the boredom and not hear your kids say, ’yeah we know that old story’ and instead engage them in a completely fresh approach that shows how recent political elections are the perfect backdrop to Christmas?

Then make sure you sign up for Free access to ‘Who’s For You?’, a free live action video from Anton’s Antics available for a limited time.

Get the FREE Christmas video from Anton here!

You'll need to enter your email, but don't worry, Anton will make it worth your while and we don't do spam.

Plus I'm keen to hear what kind of content you're missing. What are the Bible focussed videos and resources you would like to see online in 2017 from Anton? I want to make resources that will help parents in the home raise godly kids. If I can do that, ministries like churches and schools will naturally benefit too. But I want to see parents equipped to be thoroughly purposeful in 2017. 

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Give the real Christmas away to your kids

Want to get your kids engaged in the real meaning of Christmas


Do you ever struggle to explain the importance of the Christmas story to your kids? 


With all the glitz, gifts and Santa/reindeer stories, wouldn't it be great to have something tangible, fun and inexpensive we could give our kids that took them into the meaning of the Bible's well known stories? 


I've seen people photocopy colour in sheets from the internet for their church to give the kids something to fill in time on Christmas day services.They’re hardly inspiring and usually teach the kids very little.


In the home we can be so busy eating, gifting and stressing over the day that we barely mention Jesus. So before you get to the day, here’s a solution.


What we need is activities they enjoy that actually mean something and help them understand the real meaning behind Christmas.


Over the past 4 or 5 years I’ve been publishing a range of mini-stories packed with activities and even  stickers to make sure kids interact playfully with the real Christmas story.


Antons’ sticker story range will make your job a lot easier. They’re simple, four page stories that retell the Christmas event from different Biblical narratives and perspectives.


Which real Christmas story should you give away this year?


We’ve got all the main Christmas narratives from the Bible covered and each one give kids enjoyable activities to complete and makes the importance of the event easy to understand.

  • Discover the importance of Mary and Joseph’s surprise pregnancy…with ‘The Visitor’
  • See God’s trustworthiness unfold to some common shepherds outside Bethlehem…in‘The Shepherd and the King’.
  • Follow the wise men’s journey to discover why they came to worship a little baby in ‘Star Struck’
  • And with all the elections going on recently, don’t miss  out on showing your kids what a great leader Jesus is in ‘Who’s for You?’

All versions come with before school and school age versions*


Check the Christmas range out now and order with free postage for 2 packs or more (Australia wide only)


Order the devotional packs and get a range of both Christmas and year round sticker stories for your families


Family Devotion packs are available in both before school and school age packs here, check them out!


*star struck school age out of print.


Shop now for sticker stories

Is Santa real? What parents should tell their kids about Santa

I’m being asked to perform Anton’s Antics for a large private school in Sydney but before they confirm the booking there’s a catch. They want me to give an outline of what I’ll be teaching. Fair enough you say, so do I. But here’s the thing.  It’s not a concern over what part of the Bible I’ll be teaching from or what topic I might cover. It’s not about whether the show will fit or enhance the school values. It’s not about whether what I’ll say will be doctrinally sound. No. The big skeleton in the closet is something far more sinister.


What is it?

“What will you say about Santa? Will you tell the kids he doesn’t exist?”


You can hear my gasp of relief…that’s the biggy!?


They’re worried that Anton come and spoil Christmas by saying there is no Santa. I thought I was going to be grilled about doctrine or about how I might present Mary Us Protestants aren’t known for giving her much of the limelight. But no, it’s not a concern about Mary’s portrayal or what Christmas is really about, it’s a concern that the school might be embarrassed and be having to apologise to family’s they love and support because some goose came in and spoiled the fun.


Fair concern it is and I’m glad to say, Anton is no party pooper when it comes to Santa. Folks, Santa really exists for Anton and he can’t wait for Christmas day.


What's your family's take on Santa? 


How do you make the real Christmas complement and not compete with Santa?

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How to teach kids Christmas

Cue cute sheep, glamorous wise men and a comfy looking manger under a brilliant star and you’ll deliver the expected, the predictable.

Read on if you’d like to:
-    Teach the Christmas story in a fresh way that will make your community listen again
-    Truly engage kids through enjoyable activities that are purposeful not just filling in time
-    Give parents talking points and even resources they can use to reinforce the Christmas story at home

Now let me apologise and say it is OK to go cute and predictable. Look at Carols in the Myer music bowl in Melbourne. Same-same every year. People love that sentimentality. People come back every year for that same singer, singing that same song at the same time on the same night for the past 20 years.

But here’s the downside. You might not be heard. You might just reinforce people’s comfort and artificial appropriation of Christianity for one night. Yep, just like the syncretistic Israelites in Solomon’s latter days, people will worship anything for a night if you don’t raise the stakes.

Want to do more than just entertain people for a night with sentimental memories of a bygone era and reinforce their attitudes that the Bible promotes an outdated faith?

Ofcourse you do.

So how do you take a fresh look at Christmas?

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Trump or Clinton: Why parents should teach their kids about politics

clinton trump splitMost of us would prefer to ignore politics. In the US people have the luxury or some would say disadvantage of non compulsory voting. In Australia we winge about having to vote especially in light of recent years where no particular party seems worthy or capable of running the country. With all the media attention it’s impossible for our kids neither to have noticed the US election nor to have missed the name Donald Trump.

Our attitudes towards politics and government will also shape what our kids make of them.

Is there anything good about human government?

Should we vote? Should we teach our kids it’s a waste of time?

What is the role model we should be offering our kids on politics?

Christmas will soon follow the current political race in the US (but not before Thanksgiving) and the great thing about having all this political election stuff going on is that it actually ties into Christmas really nicely. I was so struck by the political nature of Christmas I wrote a live show and publish a sticker story for kids to enjoy that  highlights this key aspect of Christmas. Both the live show and the sticker story are called ‘Who’s For You?’

Why politics is essential to understand Christmas

Christmas is ‘the greatest political event of the all time’, yet we rarely hear or see anyone talk about it in such terms. Sure we see rustic mangers and sheep, wise men and moving stars, but not voting booths or polling banners. What, you didn’t see those in the gospels too?

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Should parents ban Halloween?

should parents ban halloweenIs Halloween evil? Does it have satanic undertones?
Let’s face it, kids love dressing up and who’s to stop that?

I mean what could go wrong with a couple of little kids getting dressed up and going around to stranger’s houses asking for lollies?!  What about those scary clowns…?!

For a satirical take on Halloween check out my short vlog video Should Parents Ban Halloween?

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Should parents use corporal punishment?

For some of us, any form of corporal punishment has gone out the window. But ask most teachers and they will tell you the decline in discipline in our schools started when we throughout the baby with the bath water. Some argue that slapping, smacking a child will teach a child it’s Ok to slap, hit or be violent toward others. But I believe this fails to take into consideration the considerable difference between the two events. One event has a child hitting another out of jealousy or anger. The other has a parent smacking or slapping a child out of judgment against a wrong action. Is a child is stupid enough to confuse the two and think ‘well mommy hit me on the wrist so I can hit my sister’? One is retaliation, the other a public pronouncement that a behaviour is not Ok. Judgment versus violence, the two are very different.

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What happens if you dislike one of your kids?

Ok we all know of annoying kids or people for that matter, right? No matter how hard we try they just keep rubbing us up the wrong way. If we’re honest, most of us also can probably accept that we occasionally annoy other people too. When someone else’s kid grates against you at least you can say to yourself ‘they’ll be going home soon’. But what happens when your own kid annoys you? Like not just occasionally but generally?

Is this even possible? Yes. Can a loving parent find one of their offspring harder to love than some of the others…yes? Can we even talk about this?
You may have seen this in other families or dare admit it even to yourself… “I’ve got one!”  Some kids seem experts at repelling others. Some are really reserved, quiet and shy when one of their parents is loud and outgoing. ‘C’mon Johnny, say hello…to the man…Johnny!?’

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How to make the most of a miracle motivator for your kids

I had an email the other day from a subscriber overseas who offered some thoughts on my last post about intrinsic vs. extrinsic motivators. I really resonated with his parting words and I’m sure you will too:

“I write this as a parent who is quick to motivate with threats, slower to motivate with praise and weak in praying for God to change my children”

Even when I’m teaching in a classroom (one of my many hats) I often find it’s easier to deal out a bunch of threats while ignoring the kids who are getting on with what they should be doing. Demerit! I find my energy being consumed by putting out the fires of poor behaviour and not being proactive enough to praise and reward kids who are behaving well.  What was that about a merit award system…?

What we all really want to do though is have our kids willingly, self motivatedly, get on and do what’s needed and what’s right. We want them to get on with their schoolwork. We want them to help out around the home. We want them to refrain from fighting with their siblings. Anything else?

Still, I think we should have a good heart to heart. Pause and ask yourself… ‘What do I really want for my kids?’

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